Friendsgiving: The Gratitude Investment that Brings Joy & Connection
Every November, people across the United States gather to celebrate Friendsgiving, a growing tradition that’s become much more than just a meal shared with friends. Unlike Thanksgiving, which is often associated with family gatherings, Friendsgiving offers an inclusive space where friends come together to reflect on gratitude, share in fellowship, and nurture a support network — a particular comfort for women of color, who often carry unique cultural and professional responsibilities. It’s a celebration that acknowledges the importance of community and resilience, making it both timely and timeless.
A Twist on Tradition
Friendsgiving has its roots in the traditional Thanksgiving celebration but comes with a modern twist. People often serve the familiar turkey and stuffing, but the menu can easily shift to include culturally inspired dishes that reflect the backgrounds of those gathered. For some, this might mean adding jollof rice or enchiladas to the table, creating a vibrant mix of flavors that honor each participant’s heritage. Others opt for a complete departure from tradition, organizing potlucks where friends bring favorite dishes, giving the meal a personal touch.
Fun and Games for Deeper Connections
The meal is only one part of the celebration. Friendsgiving is also about creating meaningful experiences and memories. Many hosts go beyond the dinner table, incorporating games and interactive elements to keep the gathering lively. From trivia games that test knowledge of each other’s lives to icebreaker questions that encourage vulnerability, these activities are designed to strengthen bonds. Some Friendsgiving gatherings even include TV events like holiday specials or interactive games, giving everyone a chance to relax and unwind together.
Community-Building in a Time of Loneliness
As studies continue to highlight the risks of loneliness, the value of events like Friendsgiving becomes clear. With more people remaining single or living away from their families, community-building is increasingly important. Social isolation is linked to mental and physical health challenges, including depression and heightened risks for chronic illnesses. Friendsgiving directly counters this by offering a chance to connect, laugh, and feel supported.
For women of color in particular, Friendsgiving can be a powerful reminder of the importance of community and gratitude. Many women find that their Friendsgiving gatherings offer a sense of belonging and affirmation that they don’t always find in other spaces. Whether bonding over shared experiences, celebrating personal achievements, or just spending quality time together, Friendsgiving creates a space where women can build each other up and cultivate meaningful friendships.
A Tradition Worth Investing In
Friendsgiving is more than just a trend — it’s a gratitude investment that fosters joy and resilience. Whether celebrated with a classic Thanksgiving menu or a fusion of dishes from different cultures, Friendsgiving is all about community and connection. In a world where loneliness is a growing concern, this tradition offers a joyful way to reconnect, reflect, and remember the power of friendship. For women of color across the U.S., Friendsgiving stands as a testament to the strength found in chosen families and shared gratitude.
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Crystal Walker is the new Travel & Relationship Editor at Hope magazine. A former radio personality, Crystal is a published writer, educator, communications coach, graphic designer, voice-over talent and celebrity event planner.